According to the rules, after two days you can contact a mod about the pending run but they also recently had to re-verify all runs so that is probably taking some time. I don't know how far along they are with that stuff. Generally 2-3 days is the earliest from my experience so far if they aren't busy with life. I'm sure they will get to it when they can.
3 days is a pretty small window tbh. In some other communities runners are waiting up to 2 weeks. Maybe the mods are busy? They'll verify it. Chill.
If you encounter a soft lock during your run, feel free to go back into the menu and reload into the game and I will remove that time from your final run. I have been doing this since the start of speedrunning, and I feel like it makes it more enjoyable since none of us like soft locks
